What happens when you break a rule and you don't really feel like you should be punished?
What happens when you fight your way out of it, and then you feel bad because you got out of it?
What happens when you realize you should be punished?
What happens when you wish you would have just kept your mouth shut, but you didn't?
What happens when you promise to submit to your partner, but then don't?
What happens when you NEED to be controlled and your not?
What happens when you KNOW your partner is trying, and your not?
What happens when your guilt overwhelms you?
What happens next?
later......
I just wish we could figure out what works for us.
ReplyDeleteSomedays I'm very frustrated by the whole thing, and somedays I think the whole journey is fun....sigh....today it's frustrating.
Guidelines are a good thing....I think your right, we need more guidelines.
Thanks for the hugs...definately needed!