spanking saved the day

Has this month seemed long, or is it just me?  I find it hard to believe it's still January.  Barely January, but still.

I think it's because we took down our Christmas stuff early this year!  We had most of the house undecorated before the 1st, which was very early for us.

It's been a quiet month without kids.  Bossman and I have tried to get back into a routine around here.  I don't want to say much about my stupid health stuff because...boring...but every week has been some sort of problem.  That always puts a hamper on things. 

Luckily, we have found some time to connect again.  And YES, there has been some spanking. (PK, quit looking at me....I'm getting to it already!!!!!)

Because of my issues, I tend to get rather lazy.  Maybe lazy isn't quite the word I'd use, but I slack off some.  Now, sometimes it's just the way it's gonna be, I will have off days and Bossman and I have come to understand that it will happen and it's ok.  BUT, there are plenty of good days!  With that said....it's so freaking hard to get motivated sometimes!! 

Bossman has been reminding me that I can do stuff and that I NEED to do stuff and I should do stuff and it's my job to do stuff.  By stuff I mean, ya know...housework stuff.

So he has been spanking.  With the back scratcher.  And it hurts. But it's the good kind of hurt.  You know, the kind that reminds you that you need to get back on track and your man is going to help you get there.

Last weekend Bossman woke up on the wrong side of the bed.  He was cranky and irritable and I wasn't.  So I was trying draw him out of it, but nothing was working, so that made ME cranky.  Usually in this situation I will pout.  So pout I did. After a while Bossman found me and said we were taking a shower.  Well, Pouter, Mcpouterson wasn't having that.  So after so back and forth, he said he'd be waiting in the bedroom and he was going to spank me. 

I'll tell you one thing.....don't tell me you're going to spank me when YOU were the one being cranky and just because now I'M mad you are going to SPANK me?  This is pretty much what I was thinking.  Plus, I was thinking.....I'm not going in there...HA...he can just wait ALL DAY because HECK if I'm going in there now.

Of course I was thinking all those things as I walked to the bedroom.  Listen, I waited about a minute.  So HA on him.

Once I got there I tried every trick in the book to get out of it.  Because seriously, I was NOT at fault.  HE was the cranky on.  If anything HE should have been getting the spanking, NOT me!

And YES, I was thinking that as he was pulling me over his lap. ~sigh~

So, over the lap I was pulled and spanked, I was.

It turned into one of those spankings where Bossman was getting some things off his chest and I had to listen.  Which let's face it, it's hard to listen when you are being spanked.

Once he we were done, we took that shower. 

We ended up having a nice day together.  And I made sure to tell Bossman exactly that later on.  Honestly, if we hadn't had a spanking the day would have been ruined.  I was envisioning a day of us doing separate things and not really speaking to each other.  Instead, guess what, neither of us were cranky after that.


A spanking saved the day!

Christmas eve

So much for posting more in the new year.  This is why I don't make resolutions, I always end up failing at them.


The spinning has stopped so that is a good thing!  I have been dealing with a lot of neck issues which is never any fun, but it's my life, so I just have to deal with it.


I don't think I mentioned to you all what happened on Christmas eve.  I had a doc appointment to discuss blood pressure and such, no biggie really, just a follow up.  It was Christmas eve and I was hosting my entire family that evening but my appointment was at 1 and I figured I had plenty of time to get everything done.


Turns out that a few days prior to this appointment I was getting these weird leg cramps in my right calf.  They were kind of like a Charlie horse, but different as they weren't gripping my muscle, but they were painful and because I'm on certain meds, I was a little concerned that there might be a blood clot.  BUT, the day before the appointment the pain was gone, so I wasn't too concerned.


ANYWAY, I mentioned it to my doc at the appointment and he wanted me to have a blood test just to make sure it wasn't a clot.  Because it's Christmas eve, I have to go to the hospital for the test because it's faster and the regular place was closing early.  Bossman takes me to the hospital and I have the test.  It was quick as EVERYONE was home getting ready for Christmas!  We get home and start making the food for the evening.  About an hour after the blood test they call and tell me that whatever it was the were testing for (I don't know what it's called) was elevated and I needed to go back to the hospital for an ultrasound on my leg!  SUPER!


Lucky for me the hospital is only minutes from my house.  I had to leave Bossman home to finish the food and he wasn't happy about that but I couldn't just leave the little man to do it all.


I jet over to the hospital and again...NO waiting because again...EVERYONE is getting ready for Christmas so they aren't at the HOSPITAL!


Turns out there wasn't a clot.  Thank goodness!


BUT, while I was gone, Bossman was preparing for the worst, so he texted everyone!  GAH!  Everyone was worried.  Bossman thought I was going to end up in the hospital, but it turns out I was FINE!! We got the food ready and everyone showed up and we had a wonderful Christmas!


So now that I've caught you up on my Christmas eve...I'm exhausted! 


I was going to fill you in the spanking that's been going on around her....but I doubt any of you are really interested in that sort of thing.


In case you are interested (I'm looking at YOU,  PK!) There has been spanking going on.  Bossman has been spanking a lot more and it's been good.


 Remind me to tell you about it some time.


This blogging thing is exhausting, I think I need a nap.

You spin me right round baby right round

I woke up with vertigo today. If you don't know what vertigo is....well I'm not going to look it up for you, but it makes me dizzy! Seriously it is an inner ear thing that makes the world spin. Not fun! Because of that, Bossman stayed home with me. That was a treat! He took very good care of me!

I'm feeling a little bit better this evening and Bossman asked if a person with vertigo would feel dizzy if they were over someones knee. Although I'd love to test that theory...I think I better wait until tomorrow.

So much for feeling better in the new year....I'm really sucking at these resolutions!

goals and such...

Happy New Year everyone!

I had every intention of blogging more often in the new year and since today is the 7th day of the new year and I'm just now getting to blogging, well, it's safe to say that my good intentions went right out the window.  Of course I also had every intention of getting back on the tread mill and I haven't done that either, so I guess I'm doing really good at breaking all my good intentions for the new year.

You know, I have considered stopping this blog for good.  Any of you that have been around for awhile know that I haven't been a very good blogger.  I kept thinking that my time was up and I should turn out the light on the old blog.  But the other day I started looking back at the archives and I can't believe all the things I wrote about.  I was back in 08 and boy were we busy little bees.  Life was so different than it is now.  It's amazing how much has changed.  I realized how fun it was to look back and read some of that stuff that I decided I should keep writing, for the time being.  Of course I  also realized that March of this year will be 10 years.  That's pretty amazing.  That's when I decided I should probably hang around for awhile. 

Everyone has left the building.  My son is back at school and my daughter is back at her home.  That leaves me and Bossman to ourselves.  I'm ready for some alone time with Bossman.  We have been sorely lacking in the privacy department around here.

There has been some talk on the spanking front.  We have really good intentions....and we all know how good I am with intentions. HA!  But seriously, I hope we can get back to spanking.  It would be nice.  Bossman and I are getting along pretty good, but it would be nice to get the closeness back that spanking gives us. 

I don't want our relationship to be defined by spanking.  BUT, I can't deny that spanking makes us closer.  Bossman says I only find him attractive when spanking is involved..  I don't believe that's true.  I find Bossman attractive all the time!  BUT, lets face facts....I am very attracted to him when he spanks.  Actually, I find him very attractive when he is dominate in general.  It just makes things better.  Maybe it's just the fact it makes me feel special and cared for.  I think that's a big part of it.  I mean, who doesn't like to feel special?  Although it seems out of the ordinary that I would feel special when Bossman is dominate.  But....well, this is complicated!

In any case, Bossman and I need to work on finding things that we like to do together and I feel like spanking is one of those activities.  I'm such a homebody and he's so not that it's hard for us to find things to do together that we both like.  We've had kids to keep us busy for so long that we don't know who we are anymore without them. We really need to figure it out. 

So I guess that's the goal for the year.  Figure out our relationship.  That is very important. 

That and get more spankings!