I've got numerous things going on in my brain right now. I know you all are just dying to hear the spanking details. Heh. That is not the most important thing in the world right now! What is wrong with you people...is that all you think about? Spanking, spanking, spanking??? ~sigh~
Actually, if your lucky, I may end this post with spanking details. But first, I saw something on the View that made me think.
I know, me thinking, it's always a dangerous thing.
Anyway, On the View, they were talking about men taking care of women. More specifically they were talking about men taking the active duty of taking care of the woman. Sherri Shepard alluded to the idea that if she had a man (she's going through divorce) that she would expect the man to take care of her. For instance, if there was a robber in the middle of the night, she would expect the man to take care of her. She said she would be pissed if she had to step up and take care of herself if her man was there and didn't take care of her.
Of course, I totally agree with Sherri. I expect Bossman to take care of me. Protect me. And, I know that he would!
The rest of the panel did NOT agree with her. They argued that she should never expect someone else to take care of her, she should be able to take care of herself.
Ok, I can agree that we should be able to take care of ourselves. Our men may not be there when something bad happens...that's a given.
BUT!
If I am with Bossman and something bad happens, I expect him to take care of me to the best of his abilities. I believe that MEN should take care of women!!!!
What is wrong with that? Why is it wrong to expect MEN to take care of women? Whenever there is a disaster it's always, women and children first...right???
Maybe it's because in todays society women are not suppose to be treated as the weaker sex. To admit that we want and need a MAN to take care of us, makes us weak. Women should never admit to being weak....you know womens rights movements and all that stuff.
Well, I admit it. I'm weak. I want my man to take care of me. If you want to look down on me for being weak and pitiful, that's ok because I know that if I had to, I could take care of myself. But guess what...I don't have to!
Speaking of taking care of me.....
Bossman took care of me on last Sunday and then again on Thursday!
Yummy, yummy, yummy are the words I would use to describe it.
See, there hasn't been a lot of action around here lately. Things just seems to be out of sorts and quite frankly, we have gotten into a bad rut. Same ole' thing, different day, were pretty much the way we have been living our lives.
Also, there has been this pesky little problem of not having a libido lately either. That definitely puts a damper on things in the bedroom, if you know what I mean.
So, back to Sunday.
The little man and the wildchild were both at friends houses, they had spent the night. I thought that we would MAYBE have some fun on Saturday night, I mean, empty house and all. But no, we were still in our rut! We hung out with friends and then, like the ole' fogeys that we are, we came home, watched TV and went to bed.
So the next morning, we got up and, like most Sundays, watched football and Nascar. Woo wheeee! Fun, fun, fun!
But never fear, we have a DVR. These are such handy little devices that really make TV watching much more enjoyable. You can pause or record programs and then when you do watch the program you can FAST FORWARD commercials! (we hate commercials!)
So, about mid-morning, Bossman sets the DVR to record the race.
Next thing I knew I was being led to the bedroom. I had a feeling sex wasn't on his mind. Ok, sex is ALWAYS on his mind, but I think he had something he wanted to accomplish before the sex.
Although just a half hour before I was thinking about how we missed a perfectly good spanking time, I wasn't quite prepared to actually receive one.
But I did. And it was GREAT! It was a little hard but he didn't let up, even when I whined and cried about it. After it was over, my buns were nice and toasty.
We didn't finish up with some lovin' due Bossman having a prior commitment, but GOD, did I ever get horny after that. What is it about toasty buns that does that to me? I haven't been much in the mood for anything related to sex for a while, so this was quite a shock. Needless to say, as soon as Bossman got home, I was ready to jump his bones!
I didn't get to jump his bones at that moment, but we had some very long, very sexy kisses. We haven't kissed like THAT for awhile. It was very yummy and oh-so sexy.
We did manage to make some time for some lovin' after the kids hit the hay. Wow, wow, wow, it was really nice and sexy. And believe it or not, the next day I was still horny, go figure.
So, we must have has sex almost every day last week. I think that was a new record for us.
Thursday, he had me squirming over his lap, once again. How lucky did I get to have two spankings in one week?
Bossman has concluded that our sex life is much better if we include spanking. How he came to that conclusion, I'm not sure, but I have to agree with him there.
Unfortunately all good things must come to an end. Sunday we were all a bit cranky and I'm afraid we had one of those really dumb fights. You know, the ones where you both say something stupid and both get really angry for no reason other than the fact that someone said something that wasn't worded "just right?"
Yeah, one of THOSE fights.
Don't worry. We seem to be moving back to the right direction. Bossman has said he is going to start spanking more. Even going so far as to mention some of the weapons we hold in our arsenal.
I hate to get my hopes up, cuz we've been here before. But it is lovely to think and dream about.
Meanwhile......
Did I mention that it rained here on Saturday? Big, big news in these parts, (remember anything remotely resembling a puddle is news) because it really helps the firefighters with the fires.
Oh, and it might rain tonight too! I must stay up and watch the 11 news, for they are sure to put the news lady out in front of the station with her rain coat on!!!
Big news, I tell ya, BIG, big news.
I would protect my Mthc from anything that would try to hurt her. Glad you and Bossman had fun last week. Now lets do it again this week hehehe.
ReplyDeleteI just love it when you post!!!
ReplyDeleteGrace! I saw that view too and I never get to seee the view. It was the day I was home sick. I had the exact same feelings!!! No one else seem to take her side or even realize what she was saying. How sad for them.
ReplyDeleteI love it whenever the guys re-realize how much better sex is (and life in general is) when there is some spanking going on!
Wishing you more spanking and puddles in your future!
Hugs,
PK
Grace, women are to be cherished and protected from danger and damage, well spanked as necessary and loved always.
ReplyDeleteI suppose that a section of feminists might find this objectionable, however this is how I've lived my life and it's too late to change.
I like this post Grace, a few more in the same vein would be very welcome.
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.
Glad you and Bossman are back into spanking. Yes, things are definitely better with than without. Funny how it makes you just want more!
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The thing is, it's not that we as women are completely incapable of protecting ourselves or our children when we must; we sure can! Grace, you know that if you were alone and someone attacked you and the kids, you'd protect them with every ounce of your being.
ReplyDeleteBut I think there is an male energy and a female energy. And when there is a male energy present during a dangerous crisis, I defer to that. Because I know instinctively that they can do a better job in a "protective" capacity that I ever could.
Sometimes that energy is greater in the opposite gender. I've known men whom I would never depend upon to protect me or anyone else because they suck at it; totally ineffectual. Same for some women; I've known a few very strong women, physically strong and very "male" energy women and no doubt I'd probably run behind them to protect me in a sticky situation. Because I know they could kick-ass much better than I could.
But by FAR the majority of the people I've known in my life have been; male energy in primarily males and female energy in females.
The fact that the women on The View don't seem to even recognize such an ancient and well-known biological or instinctual energy or whatever you want to call it is appalling and indicative of how far our current brainwashing of "both genders are exactly the same no matter what" goes.
Just irritates me no end. Revisionist history always friggin' does. You cannot tell me these other women are CLUELESS as to the historical role of strong men protecting women and children. *insert bad word here*
And I'd love to see a militant feminist being "forced" to accept the protection of a man physically stronger than her. Heh. Sounds like a good porn story to me! LMAO! ;-P
So glad the rains came! And so glad you two have been enjoying spanky goodness and hot sex too! :)
Feminist have a right to their opinions...as long as they don't try to push them on me!
ReplyDeleteGreat news on the spankings, and sex, and spankings and sex....oh and the kisses!
I love rain, so I don't think I could survive in California!
Huggs
Theresa
I so agree with you! I am very lucky. PS is VERY protective of me. He has been and I've known that since very early dating. I was in a bar with him (shocking me in a bar I know).. And some idiot drunk made a pass at me (that in itself was shocking to me), and when I said no, kind of tried to change my mind so to speak. PS came up and asked the guy if he would like to discuss this outside! That he was to leave me alone. The guy said he didn't realize I was "taken". PS told him whether he was dating me or if it was his friend, no one should treat anyone like that and whether it be his girl or his friend this guy better NOT be around them unless they want him to. The guy backed off. Something about a 6 foot 240 lb guy standing at full height not drunk apparantly made him change his mind about bothering me. What impressed me though was that PS reassured me that he would stand up for any of his friends and especially family ALWAYS. That was just part of HIM. I always have loved that and when he becomes "Guard dog dad" as he does sometimes it is ALWAYS a turn on to me!
ReplyDeleteSpanking news!!! WOW!!!! WOW !!!! WOW!!!! Yep bossman has you figured out! Spanking = Horny!!! Works for me!!!!
Carye
PS: Thanks for sharing!!!!!
PSS: I can also defend myself and my kids if necessary, I am an excellent shot, and I know karate. I was ready to test for my brown belt last time I quit, and now my kids are learning too! I just prefer to rely on PS when he is around! It is right for me and us!
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interesting comments when it comes to male and female roles. speaking as a female and as a feminist, personally, i would think that any man who loved me would try to protect and take care of me. just as i would try to protect and take care of him. it has less to do with gender and more to do with just loving someone.
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