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I suppose you can already tell that I changed things up a bit in here. I stopped by to see if the place was still standing and I noticed that things got a bit messed up. Seems as if part of my blog just up and vanished.

Rather than try and fix it, I thought it was time for a change. Unfortunately, it's been a really long time since I changed my blog (without help) and of course I screwed it up. I lost all my links! I saved the actual template, but I didn't realize that it wouldn't save my blog list for me. Soooooooo....

I have a lot of them on my laptop, so when I finish being lazy and open the laptop I will be able to input a lot of the links. But some of them I didn't have bookmarked, so if over the next week, you don't see your link and want me to add it...please, let me know! It really isn't an oversight, it's just incompetence on my part.

I don't really know if this means I'll be back more regularly. I actually got a little tired of the blogging world and stepped out of it for awhile. Truth be told, I still lurked around, but I just got a little sick of some of the people I see on all the blogs. I found if you lurk around long enough, you will find people in other parts of the blogsphere. People you don't expect to find. People you didn't think you would find on certain type of blogs. And, if you read the comments, you find these people saying things that they probably wouldn't say on "other" blogs....if you know what I mean.

And as a result, I found some people that seemed a little two faced. I don't mean that they were two different people...goodness knows we've been through that enough times. No, what I mean is that the comments they make to one person, can be totally different than comments they make to another.

Yes, yes, It's the same ole' thing...you can't trust people on the internet and people can say whatever they want. I get it. I just don't have to like it. I don't think it's nice to talk about others behind their back because you don't think they will ever see what you have written. I think it's the cowards way out of things. Don't get me wrong...I'm not talking about actual blogs. I think we can write whatever we want on our own blog. I'm talking about comments. I don't like it when people get bashed in someone elses comments and have no recourse. They don't have a chance to defend themselves. Sure, what we don't know won't hurt us... but seriously? What if they do see it? Or what if someone tells them? And since I saw it...then I know how truly awful you are. Although the blogsphere seems really small....it's NOT! It's huge and you don't know what blogs I read, anymore than I know what blogs YOU read. All I know is this....I saw what someone wrote and I lost all respect. Because if this person can write what they did about someone else...god knows what they are writing about me!

Ok...I'll get off my soap box. I'm not even sure why I felt the need to write this. I'm not trying to cause drama. Besides, this happened a while ago and now that I've been away for awhile I realize I don't need that kind of stuff in my life. I've got much bigger things to worry about. But I know I'll see this person on blogs that I read and I will have to grin and bare it...because if I say something...that will open a big ole' can of worms....and I'm not about to go there. I'd rather hide in my shell...thank you very much!

So, in other, and much more exciting news, spanking has resumed in graceland! Last week was a stellar week of spanking and sex. We have a nice ottoman in our living room and it's now loving referred to as the fucking stool. Feel free to use your imagination! Of course we can't call it that in front of the children. My daughter would be horrified.

As it is, I had to have a discussion about "women" things with my daughter. She's never had the "exam" and she's up for one tomorrow. As I was telling her things, I was telling her about my female health issues and mentioned something about it being hard to have sex when certain things were happening to me and she told me that she threw-up a little in her mouth while I was talking...LOL Apparently she doesn't want to contemplate the thought of me and her father doing the nasty...I don't know why not! It's how she was made...LOL

I feel myself getting some pep back. Maybe this means I'll find more things to write about.....

Or not...