disconnected

I'm feeling disconnected.

Bossman and I haven't really been getting along lately. I KNOW! How can that be? How could he and I be at odds?

There are many things that brought us here. Money issues have played a big part. He and I have very different views on how money should be spent. I take the practical approach, he, not-so-much. It's hard for me to want any sort of connection with him when I feel I'm right. Maybe I'm not right, but if I think I'm right, nothing else really matters. RIGHT???

So I have been a little distant with him lately.

Tomorrow I am having the dreaded pap-smear. Seems that is going around blog land lately.

Anyway, I have a few female problems. Aunt Flo, is a very regular visitor, but her dog Spot, stays around most of the month. Spot tends to get in the way of a good sex life. We've been dealing with it, and Bossman is very kind and considerate about it, but it's very yucky, and I don't enjoy that little part of our sex life.

Problem is, it seems to be brought on mostly by sex. So we haven't had any sex this week as I haven't wanted to start spotting before my test.

This always disconnects us. Bossman gets crankier than usual when denied sex. I get cranky when denied spankings. I certainly don't want to risk any marks on my bottom before my test. So we are both a tad on the cranky side this week.

Other news. The wildchild was denied the entry into independent study. Apparently, my child is not ENOUGH of a problem to be a thorn in their side. See, my child just ditches. She doesn't smoke, she doesn't get in fights, and generally everyone likes her. Just because she fails all her important classes and hangs out in the bathroom for alot of those classes, puts her in the "she's not on the school radar, so she doesn't matter!" category.

She failed history in 10th grade. She made up one of the semesters in summer school.
They told me she only needed one summer school class, turns out she was suppose to take 2 classes. So now she's a semester short on history. You would think they would put her in history class this year, right? Nope, the 10th graders get priority. So she will have to take it for summer school this year. She also failed geometry this last semester. Chances are pretty great that if she didn't get geometry last semester, she won't get it this semester. Since summer school is only 2 classes, she will have to make up a class next year also. This is barring she doesn't fail anything else. Now they are telling me that she didn't get in the independent study because seniors had priority. URRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!

When does MY daughter get priority?

I think I should go now...I feel the need to call the principal, (lots of really bad names!)

later......

I took this picture at the zoo last year, I'm thinking of sending it to the principal.