Lots of things in one post

This post will probably be all over the board. So, please, bear with me!

First on the list, I would like to wish Evas' husband, Adam, a Very Happy Birthday! I hope your day has been great, and feel free to give Eva all the birthday spankings she deserves....of course, then you have to tell us all about it!!!

Next, I would like to thank you all for your comments over the last couple of days. I haven't had a chance to answer them all. I remember now why I don't post every day! HA! Actually, the anniversary was nice. We went out to dinner at our favorite steak house. We stuffed ourselves like pigs and talked about lots of STUFF! Only down side? I had a huge piece of tri-tip left and I saved it.....then forgot it on the table! GRRRRRR......I was going to have that for lunch today! We are having an even better celebration next Tuesday. Bossman has a client that happens to be the best hotel in the town. They just finished remodeling the best suite in the place, hot tub and all, and they are letting us stay in it for FREE!!!!! We wanted to do it this week, but between watching the baby and kids stuff, we had to wait until next week. This is our plan for that day... Being naked and never leaving the room!!!!! Doesn't get better than that.

Speaking of baby....my nephew is walking! He's barely 10 months old and I have to chase his little butt all over my house. My kids started walking this young too, but you know, it just doesn't seem right. This baby is entirely too small to be walking around. Where the heck does the time go? Frankly all babies should have to wear a helmet when learning to walk. It's dangerous business, this walking stuff.

As far as Bossman catching up on my blog. There have been LOTS of discussions. Nothing has happened yet, but we haven't really had any alone time either, so that could explain it. I've realized that just discussing it makes me HOT! Oh, don't get me wrong, I get very embarrassed and it's hard, but inside......wow!

Lets talk MIL for a minute. Couple of weeks ago we had a big argument. Long story short, she thought I talked trash about her and I thought she was a freak. Oh, wait, I still think she's a freak, but that's besides the point. Anyway, after a long and weird discussion, I finally figured out why she became....you know.

See, she feels like the people of our church have dissed her. I can't tell you the whole story, for that would take me weeks to type out, so lets just say, she doesn't get along with the people of our church. Instead of going somewhere new, she's decided that christianity as a whole is wrong. See, because a few, so called christians, treated her like crap, (her opinion, not mine) she has decided that christians as a whole are bad people. Of course, her whole family is christian, but she made it clear that it's not us, it's just them....to me that is laughable. How can you diss a whole religion but excuse your family?

Here's the bottom line for me. If you are going to believe in something....don't do it for the people. The people have nothing to do with it. If you are going to a church just for the people then what about the rest of it? I know, I know, church is a social thing. So, if you believe in the doctrine but hate the people, find ANOTHER church, not another religion. Basically she said that the ______ church had hurt her too badly. So, just because she hates the people at this church she changed her whole belief. Told me that people on the internet were WAY nicer to her than people at our church. Here's the problem with this.... The people on the internet don't KNOW her. They only know what she writes. If they knew this real-life, hateful person, they wouldn't be so kind to her. GET this....Everytime she gets mad at us, she deletes us from her myspace. Don't you wish that in real-life you could just delete someone? Oh what a world this would be. Rude cashier..delete. Slow drivers...delete. Rude customers....delete. Stupid MIL....DELETE!

So, enough about the MIL. She is a thorn in my side that just keeps jabbing away at me. My husband is just mad about the whole thing. Neither of us want to be around her and frankly I find it hard to feel bad about it. The only thing that bugs me is the kids. My daughter had such a great relationship with her grandparents and my son doesn't get that same thing. I feel bad for him. I'm so sorry that he has to miss out on that, but it's not my fault and I know he'll be fine.

Speaking of my son and religion. The little man is getting baptized this weekend. When my daughter got baptized it was such a wonderful occasion. All the grandparents were there and we had such a nice time. Now, I don't know if anyone on Bossman's side will be there. My MIL said she would come to our church with her hajeeb (muslim scarf thingie) on. CAN you imagine? She hates all those people, but she would dare show up like that? I told her I thought that was a horrible idea. She would be taking the focus off my son and I don't like that, AT ALL!

Of course, and this is completely selfish on my part, I know, but HOW EMBARRASSING, for all of us, but mostly Bossman. If she shows up, I don't know what will happen. I do know Bossman will NOT be happy! So lets just hope she doesn't show up.

So, tell me what you would do in my situation. I LOVE to know others opinions. Just remember, I prefer if everyone do it NICELY!