So, there hasn't been any spanking. Not that I don't need one. I need one more than you can imagine. Ok, if you're reading this you can probably imagine how much I need one.
Bossman and I have NOT been getting along. This is rather odd for us, for although we have our disagreements, we usually don't have long drawn out fusses. ~sigh~ It's really hard to get in the mood for anything when you're not getting along very well. We did have a rather nice little encounter in Sunday morning, but no spanking.
So many things have happened the past couple of days. I've had to drive the wildchild to numerous appointments. I'm thinking of becoming a taxi driver and charging because I've driven around town more the past few days than I have in a long time. Although, now that I think about it, that girl doesn't have any money anyway, so it wouldn't do me any good. I've had to drive her to the orodontist, then I had to take her to the doctor, (long story) then I have to take her to her school appointments, then tomorrow, back to the orthodontist for braces to be put on.
Anyway, What should I do about this whole Bossman thing? How do we get back on track? I KNOW what you're all thinking, Bossman should just spank me. But it's not that easy. Bossman has been working crazy hours and hasn't been able to be home during the day. So even if we WANTED to spank, we just haven't had the time.
All I need is my husband.
I need him back.
Honey, I need you. I love you. Let's work this out.
later........
Oh Grace,
ReplyDeleteI think you just said all that needs to be said, as long as you then say it to him, literally, or even leave it in a note where he is sure to see it when he comes home from work...
Maybe you could leave the note resting beneath a hairbrush, just to put an idea in his mind????
Hugs and love... I'm here... just an email away!
Tiggs
Oh I know you two will work it out. I am rooting for the both of you.
ReplyDeleteHuggs
Theresa
Hi Grace!
ReplyDeleteI understand completely now! You said it all -- he is working crazy hours. That makes both of you exhausted and stressed out. It does me & Papa Shrek too. We tend to fuss at eachother much more etc. Anytime that routine is messed with. And neither of us is terribly schedule driven. It still affects us a lot. Plus you have all the stuff with Wildchild going on. I'm not surprised but hope it settles for you soon. You'll settle into a new routine and hopefully bossman will not have to work the crazy hours for long. You'll get back on track! We have faith!
Take care and give bossman a hug and a BS just for fun!
Carye
Grace, of course Bossman loves you.
ReplyDeleteIf he is working unsocial hours he is probably very tired, we do get tired and grumpy you know.
I did with Mel as at times she did with me, perfect as our love was we are still human.
You will work it out.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
You're right - it's not that easy... He's so tired and stressed too, and asking for a spanking may just be too much right now. It may seem like one more person wanting one more thing from him. Try this if you can: just acting loving, even if he's unlovable. It usually only takes one, and a very short time to break the cycle because it wakes the other up to the dynamic. The more loving and nurturing, the faster it's noticed. Not fair, I know, you're exhausted too, but I bet it gets you what you want quickly - then the discussion and spanking can follow.
ReplyDeleteOf course you're all right, as usual! That's why I bring it to you, so you can all reassure me. I'm selfish that way!
ReplyDeleteTig, we talked and we are better. He read what I wrote here, that helped.
Theresa, I always know I can count on you to root us on! Should I buy you a cheerleader outfit? Will might like that!
Carye, you're right, our lives are pretty hectic and not at all what we are used too. His crazy hours, me driving the wildchild all over town. It's enough to drive us batty.
Paul, I can't imagine you ever being grumpy, but I guess we all do once in awhile.
Anon, thanks for your advice. You have absolutly said the right things and I am going to try to be more loving. Of course, it's hard to give more than recieve when you're suffering through PMS.
Could that be my problem? PMS?
HMMMM, something to think about!
Thanks everyone! LOVE YA!
grace