We finally made it home from the airport. I am very thankful for that today. The traffic was great, there wasn't much, UNTIL, until we got about a mile from the airport. THEN it took over 45 minutes to go a mile. It was terrible. But we survived and the boy made it to his flight. He has actually landed and is waiting for his second flight. It's only an hour flight to his college from where he is now.
So, I didn't talk to Bossman about spanking. We were tired and Bossman was listening to football on the radio and I just couldn't get the gumption to talk about it. Honestly, I didn't know what to say. Half way home he told me something and I said something back and he got testy with me and I decided talking to him wasn't such a good idea. I'm not going to chicken out, I will talk to him, I just have to figure out what I want. I can't just say, hey spank me. I have to expand on that. But what do I want? That is the million dollar question.
Any suggestions on what I should ask for or how I should ask? I'm always open for suggestions.
HUGS!
Hi Grace, You have to be honest that's the only thing really. Just say exactly what you want to. Have my fingers crossed that it all works out.
ReplyDeletelove Jan, xx
Hi, Grace,
ReplyDeleteI'm with Jan, just be honest and say what you want in a sweet way. Happy you were able to spend a long weekend with your son, but hate traffic as well, just no fun at all.
--Baker
Why can't you just say spank me. Do you want a true DD relationship or just a spanking once in a while? If you don't know, that's okay too - tell him that - see what his ideas are.
ReplyDeleteI know it is easy for us to say,,,but just go for it, ask for a GG spanking. You may be surprised what happens.
ReplyDeleteHi Grace, :) I know it's a hard thing to do. Like the others, I say that you should just go for it! :) You might say, "(Honey), what if I said that you could spank me?" See what he says. Take it nice and slow... I am guessing that you both will find your way to what works for the two of you. It takes time. Thinking of you! Many hugs,
ReplyDelete<3 Katie